Archive for August, 2007

Unconventional Bling? - Your Engagement Ring

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

Have you seen the ring that The Hillsstar Heidi Montag received from her creepy boyfriend Spencer Pratt? Supposedly it is a 5 carat pink diamond surrounded by smaller white diamonds. Well, it turns out that it is a fake, kind of like Spencer’s creepy smile. It is a lavender, lemon amethyst! It has been reported that the ring costs close to $3000. Nothing to sneeze at, but much less than Spencer was boasting!

In the past several years, pink diamonds and yellow diamonds have become increasingly popular as engagement ring settings. While Heidi’s amethyst is certainly not a diamond, there is no denying that it is still a gorgeous ring! So, are traditional white diamonds going to be a thing of the past or is this a passing phase?

It is important to have an engagement ring that you love. It will hopefully sit on your finger for the rest of your life. Should we feel compelled to have a diamond because it is standard or should we feel comfortable choosing an amethyst, ruby, sapphire, or tanzanite? There is no reason to feel insecure or feel that you need to explain why your engagement ring is not a diamond. It is YOUR ring and you should have what you want. If you want the white diamond then get the white diamond. If you want an opal, then get an opal!

What are your feelings on untraditional bling? Is the white diamond the only way to go? Do you prefer a white diamond or another type of stone? Do you look at another woman’s engagement ring, see an amethyst and think it is because her fiancée couldn’t afford a diamond? Tell us your thoughts, especially if you have an unconventional engagement ring!

Finding the Right Words: Your Wedding Vows

Sunday, August 26th, 2007

A lot of couples these days are choosing to write their own wedding vows to express their feelings for one another. This is a wonderful way to tell someone just how much you love them in your own unique way. Every relationship is different and every love is unique. This is what makes writing your own wedding vows so personal.

There is absolutely no pressure to write your own wedding vows unless your future spouse is insisting on it! If you are having a traditional religious ceremony, then you will likely need to use their traditional vows. However, some religions will allow for a couple to add in their own personal vows as well. It can’t hurt to ask!

If you are still stumped and are not having a religious wedding, then there is still hope. There are hundreds of different wedding vows just waiting for you on the Internet. All it takes is a simple search. Additionally, it is a good idea to ask your officiant for recommendations. He has likely performed hundreds of weddings and will have an entire repertoire of wedding vows he has used. Again, vows can be modified and you can add in your own personal feelings.

Don’t be scared! You don’t have to be Shakespeare in order to express your love. Just consider what it is that you love about the other person. Think about the times you have had together. Think about what you want from your future life together. Then start writing!

Are you planning on writing your own vows or did you write your own wedding vows? What did you use for inspiration? Are you happy with the way it turned out? Tell us all about your wedding vows!

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