Bridal Party Gifts
Sunday, October 14th, 2007Many brides do not know that it is expected to give the bridal party gifts to thank them for their support throughout the wedding planning process. That is until they start searching the Internet and reading wedding planning books and find that bridal party gifts are a necessity. So, what should you give to your bridal party to thank them for all of their love and support?
It is important to remember that your bridal party is likely spending a lot of money on your wedding. They purchase their own clothing and accessories. They throw you bridal showers and bachelor/bachelorette parties, and they also give you gifts! Also add in the money spent if they need to travel in order to be part of your wedding. This all adds up. Even though weddings are expensive, your bridal party gifts are not the time to try and save some money.
Some couples choose to pay for the clothing that the bridal party needs to wear to the wedding. Those bridesmaid dresses and tuxedos are not cheap! Other couples choose to give their bridal party accessories that can be worn on the wedding day and on other occasions as well. This may be jewelry for the women and cuff links and a tie clip for the men.
Of course, the bridal party gifts do not need to be wedding related at all. It is nice to find something that the members of your bridal party will truly cherish. After all, you do know them well so you should know what they would like. The best man at my wedding was a smoker and a waiter, so when I saw this beautiful silver lighter and money clip, I knew it was perfect for him. I had them engraved and he loved them! He also graciously thanked me even though I later discovered that he had given up smoking! Still, it was a thoughtful gift.
How do you feel about bridal party gifts? What do you think is an acceptable amount to spend per person? Have you chosen your gifts already? Do you have any fabulous ideas to share with us? Tell us all about your bridal party gifts and why you chose them!