Finding the Right Words: Your Wedding Vows
Sunday, August 26th, 2007A lot of couples these days are choosing to write their own wedding vows to express their feelings for one another. This is a wonderful way to tell someone just how much you love them in your own unique way. Every relationship is different and every love is unique. This is what makes writing your own wedding vows so personal.
There is absolutely no pressure to write your own wedding vows unless your future spouse is insisting on it! If you are having a traditional religious ceremony, then you will likely need to use their traditional vows. However, some religions will allow for a couple to add in their own personal vows as well. It can’t hurt to ask!
If you are still stumped and are not having a religious wedding, then there is still hope. There are hundreds of different wedding vows just waiting for you on the Internet. All it takes is a simple search. Additionally, it is a good idea to ask your officiant for recommendations. He has likely performed hundreds of weddings and will have an entire repertoire of wedding vows he has used. Again, vows can be modified and you can add in your own personal feelings.
Don’t be scared! You don’t have to be Shakespeare in order to express your love. Just consider what it is that you love about the other person. Think about the times you have had together. Think about what you want from your future life together. Then start writing!
Are you planning on writing your own vows or did you write your own wedding vows? What did you use for inspiration? Are you happy with the way it turned out? Tell us all about your wedding vows!